In todays world, it seems that almost any topic is openfor debate. While I was gathering facts for this article, Iwas quite surprised to find some of the issues I thoughtwere settled are actually still being openly discussed.
Most of this information comes straight from the horses mouthwith many of my clients I have discussed this with and they arepros. Careful reading to the end virtually guarantees thatyou'll know what they know.
Women who believe a divorce is a possibility or who thinkthat their husband will be asking about getting a divorceat some point should put their emotions aside and plan'just in case' their intuition is correct that a divorcemay be coming in the near future.
If women who believethat the "divorce discussion" may be lurking, they shouldmake it a point to look for solid signs that their husband willindeed ask for a divorce...then they should planaccordingly.
Women who think that they are signs that her husband mayask for a divorce but haven't thought about it deeply orwho think that a divorce would better suit them ratherthan their husbands, should view the situation realisticallyand as stoically as possible. This will ensure that plan theytake is calculated, logical and will benefit them based onwhat they want the end result to yield.
Often times women refuse to think that a divorce couldhappen to them and one day their husband comes home andsays 'There's something I have been meaning to talk toyou about...' or 'I think we should get a divorce.' orsomething similar. If the situation has reached thispoint, its too late for women to start planning for theirfin.ancial future after divorce.
So what do women who think a divorce is eminent or whowant a divorce for themselves do in order to ensure theyaren't left in fina.ncial ruin?
There's certainly a myriad of tactics that can be usedand each woman's situation is different regarding divorce,but here's some tactics that will help:
Women and divorce tactic 1:
Once women validate their own reasons for divorce and aresure that divorce is the right path, they should make aplan and keep it to themselves. They shouldn't let anyoneknow what they've decided to do. They should not telltheir friends, co-workers, or family...no one. And theycertainly shouldn't lead on to their husband that theywant a divorce if they are the ones who will be making thefirst move to end the marriage.
Women and divorce tactic 2:Women in divorce should realize that the plan they takemay require several months to implement and they should bepatient and plan logically. Women should learn how muchmoney it would take to support themselves (and children ifthe situation warrants it), how much money is actuallyavailable to them now, and how they can adjust theirlifestyle to make sure they can financially survive.
Women and divorce tactic 3:
Women who may be facing divorce should look at thehousehold wills. In some cases, it may be legal to takesomeone out of a will or put someone into a will withoutthat person knowing.
Women and divorce tactic 4:
Women who want to plan for divorce should try to put awaycash in the event something dramatic happens unexpectedly.Bit by bit, putting cash away somewhere in a place thatcannot be found by heir husband will allow women to makesure they can survive in the event of "unforeseencircumstances".
Women and divorce tactic 5:
Women who plan on getting divorced should document anyevents that will strengthen their case against theirhusband. Occurrences such as physical abuse, verbal abuse,mental abuse, and drunken stupors that end in embaraasmentor abuse are examples or instances that should bedocumented because these happeneings strengthen any casethe women have against their husband.
Women and divorce tactic 6:
Women who know that divorce is in their future should doall they can to decrease liabilities and increase theiraccess to money. This includes paying down mutual debt,establishing credit of their own if they do not havecredit already, and making sure that the mortgage (if there isone) is paid down as much as possible.
Women and divorce tactic 7:
Women who are serious about getting a divorce or who thinkthat their husband might ask for a divorce in the futureshould gather all documents that have to do with anythingfinancial that has their name listed. They should make alist of all these items with financial institution name,address, account number, balance, interest rate, etc.Knowing exactly what is at stake financially will helpalleviate surprises later.
Planning a divorce can be as painful for women as it canbe for men. Generally, women aren't the breadwinners(although things are getting a lot closer to being 'new age' thanin previous decades) and getting surprised with divorcepapers can have long term financial affects to women who don'tplan accordingly and protect themselves financially.
Sometimes it's tough to sort out all the details relatedto this subject, but I'm positive you'll have no troublemaking sense of the information presented above.
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