Every one of us can benefit from setting goals in our life, however great or small those goals might be. You might have the goal of achieving a partnership within the firm you are working for or your goal might be that you are going to make an effort to be more confident and assertive in your day-to-day life, however big or small all goals are as equally as important. For those of us who are low in self-confidence or have low self-esteem, setting goals is an indispensable tool to gaining self-confidence and taking back charge of your life. Whatever your reason is for setting goals there are a few points you should always consider before rushing headfirst and setting out goals which are bound to trip you up at the first hurdle.
Challenging but within reason
There is no point in setting an unrealistic goal that would be impossible to reach within a specified amount of time, while the goal needs to be challenging it also needs to be attainable. The whole point to setting goals, however big or small is to bring about a feeling of accomplishment and self-worth, if your goal is not within reach realistically then you have very little chance of attaining it and this will have the opposite effect of what goals are set for.
Set specific goals
Be more specific when setting out your goals, break your goals down into smaller more easily obtainable goals at first. For example if your goals are to lose weight then instead of simply saying that you want to lose weight specify an amount of weight that you can realistically expect to lose in the specified amount of time.
Always give yourself a deadline
Set yourself a deadline in which to achieve your goal, if you have not got a specific date for reaching your goal then you will probably be forever putting your goal off and ultimately never achieve it. By setting a realistic time limit in which to achieve your goal then you will stand more chance of succeeding and the rewards to your self-esteem will be enormous.
Keep a written account
By keeping a written account of your goals, you will be able to see clearly what you achieved in the past and what your expectations are for the future. Keep a detailed journal and divide goals into categories such as those goals that you wish to reach in the short term and also those which will be obtainable over the long term.
Set only goals that are believable
Only set goals which you yourself think are believable, there is no point just setting goals for the sake of them if you do not honestly believe that you can reach them. Think long and hard about any goals you make before setting them for yourself, ask yourself questions such as, “is this something that is within my capacity to reach?,” “how much time would this realistically take?” and “can I do this or am I asking too much?” You have to honestly believe that the goals which you have set for yourself are attainable within the specified amount of time you have given yourself otherwise you will lack the motivation necessary to accomplish them.
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